I Supplemented My Baby Until My Milk Came In And We Are Still Breastfeeding At 3 Months

My son will be three months old tomorrow, and I’m reflecting on our nursing journey with gratitude. I had infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss prior to having him, and (after two rounds of IVF and six embryo transfers), he was born at 35 weeks. So we had a lot working against us for successful breastfeeding, but I wanted to try breastfeeding and I was ready to advocate for myself and the baby if needed in the hospital, since I knew I had significant risk factors for delayed onset of milk. 

The first day he latched on right away but was so vigorous that he completely tore up my nipples. I was bruised and blistered and bleeding. The lactation consultant and nurses in the hospital were amazing and reaffirmed my desire to breastfeed but encouraged me to feel good about supplemental formula feeding for a few days until my milk came in. They were cognizant of my very sore nipples, limited our nursing time, and helped me get a better latch—and we did—and it improved even more with a corrected latch for each feeding.  They gave me so much confidence by keeping my baby fed (he was only 35 weeks) while managing my nipple pain and appropriate stimulation for milk production. The pediatrician referred me to an ENT for a suspected tongue tie, though it turns out his tongue was fine.

They gave me so much confidence by keeping my baby fed (he was only 35 weeks) while managing my nipple pain and appropriate stimulation for milk production.

The lactation consultant and one angel nurse who was also a lactation consultant gave me individualized attention and support. I know now how lucky I was to have such nonjudgmental health care professionals, who never shamed me or made me feel guilty for having difficulty early on and for using supplemental formula. 

Even the World Health Organization concludes the addition of artificial milk  supplementationprobably makes little or no difference to breastfeeding at discharge compared to those who were not supplemented.

The question is how did the very low quality of evidence turn into moderate-quality evidence for exclusive breastfeeding, particularly when the evidence showed improvement of breastfeeding rates in supplemented breastfed newborns?

If we had never fed formula the first few days, we never would have been successful with breastfeeding, because I would have stopped from the pain, and my baby would not have been safely fed while waiting for my milk to come in. It’s so wonderful that there are professionals out there actually interested in safe breastfeeding instead of pressuring every mother to exclusively breastfeed, despite the pressure to meet hospital exclusive breastfeeding rates at discharge.

I want to thank the Fed Is Best Foundation’s support group for cultivating a wonderfully supportive space for parents to feel confident about however they end up feeding their babies. That’s where I was initially informed about how to safely breastfeed my baby. I followed their breastfeeding plan, and the first step was to identify my potential risk factors for delayed onset or low milk supply and how to navigate those first five days before I had enough milk to fully feed my baby. We have exclusively breastfed from the time my milk came in, and I have a 200 oz freezer stash to help support us in continuing when I go back to work in three months. Fed is Best’s educational resources gave me the confidence I needed as a new mother, and I am very thankful. 

 

-Evalyn Patterson


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Additional resources:

WHO 2017 Revised Guidelines Provide No Evidence to Justify Exclusive Breastfeeding Rule While Evidence Supports Supplemented Breastfeeding

Feed Your Baby—When Supplementing Saves Breastfeeding and Lives

I Didn’t Make Enough Milk Like So Many Other Moms: Supplementing Saved My Breastfeeding and My Son

Our Close Call with Our Baby’s Life While Exclusively Breastfeeding Haunts Us

The Loss Of Our Son Has Devastated Our Family – This Time I Will Be Supplementing With Formula After Every Nursing session

 

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